How I Spent My Summer Vacation
New York City 2008

Aug
02

Well, it’s now one-thirty Saturday morning. Eliza leaves in two and a half hours and I’m out at six. The evening has been a whirlwind of cleaning, packing and throwing away. Most of my belongings are packed; the rest will go in the morning. I can’t believe it’s over.

Today was the fastest day of work I’ve had all summer. It’s as though I walked in the door, blinked, ate lunch, blinked again, and was gone. Leaving the office was very surreal – as I was saying my goodbyes to the food editors (who bestowed on me two complimentary bottles of wine as a farewell gift), a few of the other people I’d been closest with came in to say goodbye. It was kind of dramatic, having everyone there. I didn’t cry until I happened to run into one of the senior editors a few minutes later – I guess everything was just catching up to me. Emily, the new editorial assistant, gave me a tissue and a hug as I left the office for the last time.

We (21 of us, that is) went to dinner for Justine’s birthday this evening. The rest of the group went out to the bars afterward; as much as I would have loved to have spent one last night with the other interns, we had some serious work to do. Holly, Eliza, Lesley and I went back to the apartment to clean and whatnot, as I mentioned before.

Saying goodbye to the other interns was definitely difficult. As much as we all say “see you next year,” I’m not convinced. Sure, many of us will end up in New York, but things will never be quite the same. There’s nothing wrong with that – it’s just that this summer has been so darned much fun. (Not surprisingly, I cried again.)

So, I suppose it’s time for me to lie down for an extended nap before waking up to help Eliza with her bags and then repeating it again for myself. God willing, I’ll be landing in Springfield at 2:15 tomorrow afternoon.

I can’t express how overwhelmed I am by this entire experience. So much has changed in such a short amount of time. This city is such an amazing place, and I feel extraordinarily grateful to have experienced it. None of this would have meant anything without the love and support my family and friends from home have given me unceasingly… and for that, I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet.

I guess this is the end of my Summer in the City. Three weeks from today, the next great journey begins. Check out my new blog at http://whybulgaria.wordpress.com to read about my adventures in eastern Europe.

Thanks for reading this summer; I love you all.

 

“So if I should visit the moon
Well, I’ll dance on a moonbeam and then
I will make a wish on a star
And I’ll wish I was home once again.”

Aug
01

Well, I graduated today. That is, I “graduated” from the internship program. We had a really nice lunch in the banquet room of a restaurant on 54th… second fancy-schmancy meal in less than 24 hours. One of the editorial assistants went with me since my editor couldn’t be there (scheduling conflict) – it was fun to hang out with her for a couple of hours.

Tomorrow (Friday) is my last day at the magazine. Elyse and I are going to lunch with our editor to celebrate. For being such an emotional person, I’m surprisingly calm about the whole thing. Well, maybe “calm” isn’t the word… I’ve been so stressed over getting everything done at work by the end of the week that I haven’t had a chance to let everything sink in. No idea how tomorrow will go.

I mailed two boxes home today to lighten my suitcases. Shipping is expensive! Also, since I couldn’t carry both boxes at once, I had to make two trips to the post office. (This was one of the only times I’ve wished I had a car all summer.)

This evening, I managed to pack up most of my stuff. The walls are bare, the clothes are (mostly) packed. As is typical for my moving adventures, my desk remains covered in miscellany. C’est la vie.

For now, I really need to get some sleep. Tomorrow will be another full day – my last full day. Good night.

Jul
31

A few weeks back, while walking to church, I noticed a knitting store across the street. It didn’t look at all antiquated or overly crafty – in fact, from the outside, it looked pretty hip. I made a mental note of its name and Googled it later, at which point I learned that they offered not only knitting supplies, but instruction as well. Free instruction. (Well, free instruction with purchase, but since I lacked both needles and yarn, I’d have to buy something anyway.)

I love scarves. Love them. Since this whole summer has been about trying something new, I thought learning to knit would be a fun adventure. If all went well, maybe I’d be able to make a scarf by the time the weather grew cold enough for one. So, last week, I walked on over to the store and made an appointment. That appointment came last night.

The owner of the store – Charlene, I think – is a short, stout woman with dark skin, a gravely voice, and a style to match the store. She doesn’t take any guff – if your technique is even one bit out of line, she’s on your case immediately. It worked, though! After an hour or so in training, I’m now able to cast on, knit and purl. I could finish a project – that is, a potholder or scarf – if only I knew how to cast off. Someday. Until then, it’s an interesting new hobby that should be good for killing time on the airplane.

Tonight, I checked another item off the list: Restaurant Week. Eliza coordinated the outing, with thirteen of us eating a swanky dinner at TriBeCa Grill. I would have loved to have provided pictures from the evening, but I forgot to put my memory card back in the camera before heading out the door.

The deal with Restaurant Week is that you pay a flat rate for a three-course meal, with three options for each course. For the salad course, I chose the roasted baby beet and goat cheese salad; for the main course, grilled skirt steak with charred corn, fingerling potatoes and scallions; for dessert, vanilla panna cotta with citrus consomme. I’m surprised enough by the first course – I tried beets and actually liked them. They’re nature’s candy, as Doug Funnie would say.

Really, the entire meal was decadent. I am not accustomed to such sophisticated fare, so it was quite a treat. Besides, it was worth a bit of a splurge to have an awesome night out with so many of the people I’ll have to say goodbye to in just two days.

The culinary adventures don’t stop here, though – tomorrow is the graduation lunch, followed by our farewell lunch at work Friday and Justine’s birthday dinner later that evening. Should be fun, but I’m still waiting for my hot dog.

Jul
28

I can’t believe I took the world’s biggest Cubs fan to a Cardinals game.

Surprisingly enough, she wasn’t the only person in Cubs gear at the stadium. And, in a strange way, I felt better having a fellow Midwesterner on my side, whether she was in red or not. I was actually surprised to see how many Cardinals fans were at the game. Shouldn’t have been, though – New York is a melting pot of transplants from throughout the country, so I’d imagine they attract more away-team fans than would most places.

Shea Stadium reminded me, strangely enough, of the Manners Park Pool. I think they were built at roughly the same time – ’60s, if I recall – and they had very much the same feel. Same painted letters on the concrete steps. Same chipped handrails. I would have loved to taken a dip in the swimming pool of my childhood, as the upper tier was absolutely sweltering.

The heat gave way to a cold front as the storm clouds rolled in. The temperatures plummeted and I began to regret wearing shorts to the game. A light-to-medium rain came in and we ended up having to break out the umbrellas.

We watched in horror – well, in Stacey’s case, apprehensive joy – as the Mets tore through the Cardinal defense. Pitch after pitch, I buried my head in my hands. Final score? 1-9. It was great to see my home team, but what a way to do it!

Tonight was part two of my own personal Subway Series. I changed clothes in the office bathroom and met up with the group (roommates plus Jeff and Nate) in Grand Central Station after work. We made it to Yankee Stadium just in time for the Star-Spangled Banner.

I don’t have any emotional investment in the Yankees or the Orioles, so I opted to go the route of the Podeschi sisters and cheer on New York. For all the times I heard Jessi go on about Derek Jeter, Jason Giambi and the like, I figured I could root for her team for once.

Like with Shea, Yankee Stadium is in its final season. I neglected to get a picture of the construction from yesterday, but here’s a glimpse from this evening:

I may have eaten the most amazing hot dog of my life. It was so deliciously juicy, worth each of the five dollars I spent on it. As much as I miss Busch, it was nice to have a hot dog that wasn’t shriveled and burnt for a change. I may or may not count this as my hot dog cart purchase.

We couldn’t have asked for a better night for baseball. The temperatures were perfect, the breeze was just right… and had it not been for a series of home runs (including a grand slam) by the Orioles, it may have been a close game. Perhaps the weather was to blame, but I preferred Yankee Stadium hands-down to Shea. The atmosphere was much more emotional – while people seemed to mostly boo at the Mets game, tonight’s crowd was quite enthusiastic.

That is, they were enthusiastic until things started going wrong. With Baltimore’s grand slam in the sixth came a mass exodus from the stands. The aisles became streams of Yankees fans abandoning their team in favor of a train ride home. New York caught up a bit as the game wore on, but by the eighth inning, half the seats in the stadium were empty.

We capitalized on this, uh, population shift by moving down to seats in the lower deck for the last inning of the game. Down there, the players look more like people than toy figurines – amazing! The game ended in a 13-4 win for the Orioles. Looks like I just can’t cheer for the right team… but it was still a great night for baseball.

Jul
28

Finally got to see my Harvard girl! Stacey arrived at Penn Station around noon Sunday. We went back to the apartment to make plans for our day in the city and then hit up a restaurant down the street. I tried tofu for the first time (not mine, but a piece of hers – she’s vegetarian now, which surprised me, considering we come from a meat-and-potatoes world). Didn’t like it; too squishy.

I was so excited when she seemed interested in going to the Cloisters with me, because I’d been worried I wouldn’t make it up there. The Cloisters are at the tip top of Manhattan island, an hour by subway. Lunch had taken longer than we’d expected, so we were on a bit of a time crunch. When we walked out of the subway station, we came up to an absolutely gorgeous park. So serene. It had the most beautiful view of the Hudson River, too:

Does anyone else think that view looks suspiciously similar to Starved Rock?

We continued to wind our way through the park until we finally reached the Cloisters. The descriptions were dead on – it was like someone dropped a European monastery right into the middle of New York City. According to the guide, the exhibit has been in the city since the 1930s (thanks, in no small part, to the Rockefellers). It’s not a huge complex, but its many rooms contained artifacts and works of art from several old churches – the oldest I saw was from the 11th century. Stained glass windows, altars, statues, you name it – they had a little bit of everything.

And, no joke, the inside felt just like Europe. It reminded me of touring other churches and museums to see the Book of Kells or the royal family’s crown jewels or that creepy church in Rome with all the skulls. Very authentic, very cool. 

My favorite part was walking through the courtyard areas. It was a little slice of heaven:

(And you’re right, Stacia/Rhonda/Rebecca… it feels like you’re in the middle of nowhere. It’s not every day you get that sense of peace out here.)

By 4:30, we hustled back to the subway station to catch a train back to Times Square. We had a plan: to enter (and, ideally, win) the lottery for In the Heights. Since my Passing Strange debacle, I’d attempted to get tickets for In the Heights, but failed miserably. This was our chance!

We waited anxiously and, lo and behold, BOTH our names were called – mine second, hers second to last. This was great news, as we’d be able to buy a ticket for Laurel as well. Taylorville girls reunite!

On the ride back to the apartment, three boys boarded the subway car – dressed alike and toting a portable stereo, I’d peg them to be about 11, 13 and 16. As soon as we left Herald Square, they began yelling/chanting to get everyone’s attention and turned on the stereo. Next thing I knew, I had front-row seats to a (pretty impressive) hip-hop show. I have a hard enough time standing straight on a moving train, much less breakdancing. They did all sorts of tricks – handstands, flips, you name it. Of all the street performances I’ve seen in this city, this one was the best.

In fact, I was so distracted by the show that I missed our stop. By the time we backtracked to the apartment, we had to scramble to get ready in time to meet Laurel and head uptown. We did it, though!

Oh, yeah, and Laurel and I dressed alike. Again.

In the Heights won the 2008 Tony for Best Musical, and with good reason. It may well be my new favorite, or at least up there on my list. The show is based in Washington Heights, a primarily Hispanic neighborhood in uptown Manhattan. I immediately realized that the set was indescribably realistic. It was as though someone had ripped a section of buildings off the street and dropped it onto the stage. (The pit orchestra was even underneath a subway grate.)

The show was full of energy – so much dancing. The lead character reminded me of a Dominican version of Steve from the paper, wardrobe, appearance, mannerisms and all. He rapped almost the whole way through the show, but not in a cheesy or contrived way. It just fit. Loved the show… loved it, loved it, loved it.

Couldn’t have asked for a better day in my last Saturday in New York. My last work week is about to start, so I need to hurry up, dry my hair and get going.

Jul
27

In the past three days, I’ve managed to cross a number of items off the list. I don’t have enough time this evening to describe each in detail, so I’ll just work my way through them individually in hopes of catching up as soon as possible. (Translation: there may be an abnormally large number of posts within the next day or two.)

First, the Bulgarian nightclub. Holly and Eliza went to Shakespeare in the Park Friday evening. I didn’t go because there were only two tickets available, so I opted to instead spend the early evening hours taking a nap. (I also intended to blog, but as you can see, that didn’t work out so well.) They came back around 11:30 and still had to get ready to go out, so it was well past my bedtime by the time we finally escaped from the apartment.

I was not happy about the delay – so much so, in fact, that I wasn’t even looking forward to Mehanata. I rarely enjoy clubs, much less in the middle of the night, so… ugh. Fortunately, it turned out to be one of our best nights in New York.

Thank goodness we had the address, because the outside of the bar was fairly nondescript. We went through the entrance and crept down a narrow hallway, at the end of which we entered a whole different world.

Apparently Mehanata relocated within the past year or two, and I love its new digs. The inside felt the way I picture an Eastern European street to be, complete with a stone-and-wrought-iron balcony. One part of the wall resembled a log cabin, and I’m pretty sure other parts were adorned with brick. Dimly lit, very cool.

Other aspects of the place were slightly tacky, but oh so much fun. For instance, the entire room was filled with tiny, moving rays of strobe lights, arranged in a way that resembled reflections from a disco ball. And the music – oh, the music. Think techno polka with Spanish or Middle Eastern songs thrown in. Everyone was dancing their hearts out, and it wasn’t at all sleazy or uncomfortable, like most clubs. The atmosphere was such that you couldn’t help but smile. (I also discovered that my own adaptations of line dances from Wild Country worked very well with this style of music. Funny, eh?)

In short, if this is anything like the real Bulgaria, I’m going to be very happy living there.

Jul
23

I was staring at my planner this afternoon when I realized… time’s almost up. Ten days, and I’m home.

So, in an effort to take advantage of what time I have left, I decided to go see the 8 p.m. show of Passing Strange. Unlike with other shows, most of which offered lotteries for discounted tickets, this show advertised $25 “youth tickets” for anyone under age 25. Since I concocted this plan while at work, I only had time to ask my friends interning at the same company if they were interested in going. No one was available, so I figured I’d go alone. No biggie – theater’s dark for the whole show, anyway.

I rushed out of work more hurriedly than usual and hopped on the shuttle to Times Square. If I may go off on a tangent, the shuttle is my least favorite subway train. It only has two stops – point A and point B – so the journey tends to consist of a lot of sitting and waiting for enough people to get on the train to warrant a trip. Sitting in a stopped subway car is, in my opinion, one of the fastest ways to make a person go insane. You’re so close to being able to get where you’re going, but you have to keep waiting. It’s like transportation purgatory. Plus, the handrails are always greasy. Yuck.

Anyway, I happened to luck out in hopping on the train right before its departure. A few minutes later, I ascended the steps to 42nd and Broadway – that’s right, my favorite place in the world, Times Square. You’d think that for as much as I dislike the place (and as much as I write about said dislike), I’d avoid it. But no, I keep going there.

I was on a mission: get to the theater, buy my ticket, book it home to get dinner, and come back for the show. As per the usual, I was asked by more than one advertiser if I like comedy shows. (Of course I like comedy shows. But for all intents and purposes, no. I hate laughing and prefer activities such as kicking puppies and stealing candy from small children. Now leave me alone.)

At 44th Street, I hung a right and dashed toward the flashing lights ahead. Only a few more steps and I would have my ticket. Victory was in sight. Suddenly, a strange feeling hit me. As I approached the theater, I noticed the windows seemed eerily dark. Maybe the ticket office was further down? I was about to keep walking when I noticed a sign on the door:

“Passing Strange held its last show on July 20, 2008. For ticket refunds, call…”

What? The show closed? SUNDAY?

I tend to believe in “signs,” but this one seemed more overt than most. An 8 1/2 x 11 sheet of white paper was telling me to turn around and go home. So I did. Broadway just wasn’t in the cards tonight.

I’m starting to discover that this is kind of how life operates. Just as soon as you think you have all your plans made, someone (or something) throws a wrench in the works. It’s not a bad thing, necessarily – you just keep going. Not every night can be a night on Broadway.

Jul
23

Monday night, instead of heading home after work, I walked over to Bryant Park and secured a spot on the lawn for the weekly installment of the HBO Summer Film Festival. Holly, Eliza and half of New York City later joined me for a twilight screening of “Arsenic and Old Lace,” a 1944 comedy starring Cary Grant.

The atmosphere was much like last week’s Central Park adventure, but in a smaller space and with fewer candlelit wine tastings. I was much less stressed this time around, though, because I didn’t have to find anyone in the crowd – it was all up to me. The park opened for seating at five, but by the time I got there (6:30ish), the lawn was more or less full. I found a wider-than-usual gap between two other blankets and camped out there until Eliza arrived with the picnic blanket.

I had an amazing time. In fact, after having seen the symphony, Broadway excerpts, and now a classic film, I’ve concluded that I would love just about anything followed by the phrase, “in the park.” Crocheting in the Park? Sure. Interpretive Dance in the Park? I’m game. Naptime in the Park? You can bet money on it.

(No, I didn’t take that picture, though I wish I had. I “borrowed” it from another blogger who “borrowed” it from Flickr. That gives you an idea of the atmosphere, though. I need to stop forgetting my camera.)

By the way, I am an official ticketholder for Mets vs. Cardinals on Sunday and Yankees vs. Orioles on Monday. Game on.

Jul
20

I thought I had the transit system all figured out, but I discovered yesterday morning that I was wrong. After running some errands, I took the subway up to Herald Square, which is near Penn Station. By the time I got there, though, I had maybe ten minutes left before the train to Long Beach was scheduled to depart. The real problem, though, was that I wasn’t entirely certain how to get to Penn Station. First, I ended up at the station for the PATH trains, which go to New Jersey. (Wrong direction entirely.) When I went out to the street, I went the wrong way down the sidewalk and lost even more time backtracking. All the while, I fretted over the prospect of missing the 11:03 train. So… I began running.

Mind you, it’s been one of the hottest weekends of the summer. I wasn’t running full speed or anything, but was rather doing one of those rushed-walking-but-not-quite-jogging moves that people seem to do only when they’re rushing toward a mass transportation system (i.e. airplane, bus, or train). By the time I reached the station, I was a sweaty, frazzled mess… and I hadn’t even left Manhattan.

I rushed into the station at 11:02, one minute before the train was scheduled to depart. The station was buzzing with people, mostly beachgoers headed to sandy sanctuaries as far from the city as possible. There were lines of at least fifteen or twenty people at every ticket vending machine, which worried me, but when I saw a picture of a MetroCard on one of the machines, I reasoned with myself that I’d be fine with my subway pass and decided to make a run for it.

And run I did – this time, literally. I raced down the platform, only to meet a wall of people at door after door after door. Since this was an “actual” train, I didn’t dream they’d let people stand while riding, but I was dead wrong. These train cars were packed more tightly than a subway in rush hour. When the conductors shouted the all-aboard call, I was still scrambling to find a way to get on the train. Unable to find an opening (and still concerned about the ticket situation), I gave up then and there.

It turned out to be a good decision. I called Brian to let him know I’d be an hour later than planned, bought an actual train ticket from the machine, and settled down in the waiting area with the book I began reading the other night. When noon rolled around, I got in line to be sure to find a seat. The train ride was very comfortable, and nine or ten chapters later, I was in Long Beach.

The first thing I noticed when I stepped off the train was the sky. Without buildings obscuring my view, the blue blanket of sky extended from one side of the horizon all the way to the other. And there was grass! (Truth be told, I spent most of the day in amazement over the simple pleasures of being in an “actual” town. This probably got annoying.)

Brian met me at the station and we took the bus to his parents’ house, where we ate sandwiches for lunch. The beach is only a short walk from the house – only a few blocks – so we packed up our stuff and were at the ocean in a matter of minutes.

We sat out in beach chairs for probably four hours, talking and taking in the sea breeze and sunshine. Being on the beach was a complete 180 from my new everyday life, so I soaked up every second of it. And how could you not? The air was ten degrees cooler than in the city, the wind was moving at a brisk (yet not overwhelming) pace, and the sand was probably the finest I’d seen. What an amazingly pleasant place.

Before going back to the house, we went over to the short to at least set foot in the ocean. Never did swim, though – maybe next time.

As the temperature began to cool and the waves grew more rough, we took a bike ride down the boardwalk. The bicycles we rode, like many we passed, were much like the entire town – comfortable and classic. They had long handlebars and no handbrakes. I can’t tell you how long it had been since I’d backpedaled to stop a bike.

Long Beach is a quintessential beach town – small, cute cottages, neighbors who still say hello. Once or twice, we passed areas where people were having block parties. (In the literal sense – streets blocked off so neighbors could have parties in the street! Who does that anymore?) In short, if it weren’t for the exorbitant real estate costs, I’d move there in a heartbeat.

Nearly five miles later, we’d ridden the length of the boardwalk and back through town. His mom had macaroni salad ready when we got back, so we grilled some burgers and ate dinner on the back patio with his parents. Unfortunately, I had to literally eat and run, as I had to catch the 8:45 bus to make it to the 9 p.m. train. The whole day was like a mini-vacation. As the train pulled into Penn Station, I finished the final page of my book – a perfect way to finish a nearly perfect day.

Today, Laurel and I went to the Nederlander Theater to try our hand at getting tickets for Rent. Unlike with Spring Awakening, Rent works on a lottery system. Everyone who shows up at the box office at a given time puts their name in a hat, and names are drawn until the discounted seats are gone. I found the process to be very nerve-wracking, as we could easily lose out and be back at square one. Once Laurel and I put our names in, we went to some scaffolding across the street to knock on wood for good luck. A little superstition never hurt, eh?

Apparently it worked, as my name was among the first called. As I walked into the theater to buy our tickets, I felt like I’d won the golden ticket to go into Willy Wonka’s chocolate factory. With the show scheduled to close in early September, this was probably our last chance to see a live performance – and we got it! In fact, we managed to get front-row seats for $20 each. Compared to the usual price of $110 apiece, I’d say we got a sweet deal.

I enjoyed the show, though probably not as much as with Spring Awakening or Hairspray. I suppose I’m a bit put-off by how people sensationalize Rent. It’s a good musical, but you can’t possibly tell me that watching a two-and-a-half hour show was the turning point in your life… yet that’s what so many people had written on the doors of the theater. Just appreciate it for what it is – a good show – and leave the drama for the actors.

(Still, I’m not complaining. We were extraordinarily lucky for that to have turned out the way it did.)

Tonight was the end of the regular season for our basketball league. My team ended up dead last – completely defeated – but still had fun. I’m still terrible at basketball.

Really, that’s it. It’s safe to say I’d count this among the best weekends I’ve had here. Less than two weeks remain before I go back, so I plan to make the best of it.

Jul
20

Okay, so we’d been talking about it for a long time, but finally decided to go to the Brooklyn Brewery Friday night. I’ll start off by saying it’s a cool place to go – good atmosphere, and if you’re into beer, there’s a variety to choose from. We were only there for a half-hour or so, but I had a delightful time.

That being said, I have a bone to pick. When I thought “brewery,” the image of the majestic Anheuser-Busch Brewery immediately popped into my head. Though I’ve never been on the official tour, I have visited the St. Louis brewery before and must say it’s a nice place. The only similarity I could immediately find between this place and A-B is that they are both, well, breweries.

You see, people don’t really seem to care about Budweiser here. I’m not a beer person, but it annoys me that if the topic ever comes up, Bud is immediately denounced as “crap” (or any other negative connotation you deem suitable). I’m not saying that Anheuser-Busch products are superior to all other beers on the market, but being from the St. Louis area, I consider the company a strange little piece of my heritage.

That’s the part that people just don’t get. I see my adopted hometown, they see crappy beer.

Then again, I can’t always expect people to understand where I’m coming from. I suppose things like this that are specific to an area just can’t be understood by people from other places. I can’t expect the Brooklyn Brewery to be the Anheuser-Busch Brewery, because then there would be no point in going to both. They’re both fine the way they are. (Except for that InBev thing; I’m not sure how I feel about it.)

Stay tuned for more weekend adventures… Long Beach was today, and Rent will (hopefully) be tomorrow.